“Maging masaya”
“to be successful” 
“to improve”
“to live a better life” 
“makatulong sa ibang tao…”
I guess most of us never really wishes something bad for ourselves and others. We have dreamt that our lives would go in the right direction (or the direction that we think is best for us) but most of us don’t achieve the goals we wanted to get. 
Contrary to popular belief, motivation and our direction isn’t the problem.